My Final Thoughts on 2014

2014 has been a year filled with happiness and love but also sadness and pain. Ups and Downs and everything in between. Here are my final thoughts on 2014 and my New Years Resolutions for 2015! 

I guess I will start with the good things about 2014. My birthday in 2014 was the BEST birthday I have ever had! I have talked about this enough times I know but since this is my 2014 year in review I have to talk about it again. 

January 28, 2014! 3 days before my 26th birthday was the best day of my life so far! That is the day that I met my idol, someone who means the absolute world to me, Lucy Hale! Lucy is just amazing and the sweetest person on the planet. That day meant everything to me. After being down for so long, that day and Lucy lifted me back up, gave me hope and made me believe in my dreams and that dreams really do come true. I so hope I get to see her again! I love you more than you will ever know, Lucy! Also, I want to say to everyone hating on Lucy for any reason what so ever lately it is because she cut her hair short, shame on y'all. Just because you don't like someone or what they do or how they do things doesn't mean you can bully them and be disrespectful. Lucy is not just a celeb, she is a human being with feelings and heart just like the rest of us and it makes me sad and mad to read hateful things towards her. Lucy is beautiful no matter what she does and I love her hair it is beautiful on her! Hope y'all like the poem I wrote about Lucy as well. This is the first time and place that I have posted it.

As with any year, there a good times and bad times. A week after I met Lucy, My Grandma passed away from pneumonia. My Grandma was one of my favorite people in the world. She was one the strongest people I knew. I was really sad after that of course. In May, we took Grandma back to Michigan to bury her ashes right next to Pa in the plot she had purchased many years ago. I will always miss and love you Grandma! 

When I didn't think things could get much worse, on July 4, 2014 my Nana passed away. I just couldn't believe it. I sat there shaking uncontrollably. I had seen Nana just a month before and she was fine. I couldn't believe this happened again. My Nana gave me the love of Country Music! The BEST genre of music there is I don't care what anyone says. I will always love and miss you Nana! 

 Things were getting better or so I thought until October 2014 when I found out a long time family friend Joanne had passed away from Lung Cancer the same cancer that took my Grandaddy when I was 14. Joanne always made me laugh and she had the longest hair but she smoked for as long as I knew her she smoked and because of that she had developed lung cancer. She had done all the treatments but even after she finished that there were still spots left on her lungs and her dr said her body couldn't handle anymore treatment so this past October, she passed away. I will always remember the fun times we had, Joanne! 

So, I didn't go home to Virginia for Thanksgiving for the first time in a long time. I stayed in Florida. That was different for me as was this Christmas. No Christmas tree, hardly any decorations, and it just did not feel like Christmas to me. I did go to Richmond though and I did get to see Sarah like usual so that was good. Seeing Lucy's Disney Celebration performance on Christmas Day made things a little easier to handle as well, and here we are now December 31, 2014. The final day of the year and I am glad that a new year is starting. 

2014 has been a year of unrest, violence, pain and little hopes for humanity thrown in in between the madness. The race issue continues to boil here in the US and it was never really dead to begin with. All the rioting and looting and violence it's just sad that in this day and age we can't all get along and learn to except each other for our differences. We all have the same organs and features but because we all look different, people think that is an invitation to hurt one another and it is ridiculous. Our obsession with material items is getting out of control too. There are more important things in the world than the newest electronic or shoes or something. People going nuts just to get one or a pair and stealing and beating people up it is seriously messed up. If you don't have the money to buy something then you can't get it plain and simple. 

Love is the most important thing we all need. Whether it is family, friends, boyfriend, girlfriend, whatever. We all need love. I am lucky enough to have found my true love and soul mate, Rob. He has been the biggest blessing in my life, even if some people don't believe it, it is true. He understands me, loves me unconditionally, makes me feel loved and safe and happy and makes me feel like I am not alone. We complete each others sentences and laugh about stupid things. We love a lot of the same people and things. It is like a match made in Heaven and I thank God for him everyday! I love you so much Rob and I always will. You are the other half of my heart! 

So for 2015, I hope that we can change our world for the better. Find solutions to our problems by talking with each other not by battling each other, that is unlikely to happen but a girl can wish right, We need more love and compassion in this world, we need more positive role models and education. 

My New Year's Resolutions for 2015: 

Lose weight! I really need to lose weight badly. I don't eat a lot but I am still overweight for my short height. 

Figure out something to do with my life. It's very hard for me to figure something out. I love multiple things and it still my dream to be a published Author and I am going to work very hard to make that happen. Writing is my passion. I love photography, weather, animals, and working on the computer as well. I will hopefully be volunteering at my animal shelter when I get back to Florida, I am hoping that will lead into something for me. I would love to work or volunteer at a cat rescue if possible, I wish I could find one. 

Continue to be myself and not care what anyone says. I have always had a problem with that. I always take what people say about to heart whether good or bad and I need to stop that and I will. Nobody is going to change who I am or anything. 

Hopefully get closer to getting married and being with my love forever. I can't wait until that can happen but we need a lot of things to happen first. 

Lastly, continue to love and support Lucy Hale, Alyssa Milano, and watch Pretty Little Liars! The main people and the show that makes me the happiest and I will always love and support them! 

Happy New Year Y'all! May 2015 bring you everything you hope for! 

~Peace and Love~ 

















 

Something That Gets On My Nerves and Makes Me Sad!

I have to express my opinions and feelings on this. My Hero Alyssa Milano tweeted yesterday that she "wish the paparazzi would leave her alone at yoga class and that bloggers would stop buying the pictures and posting them". It makes me sad that Alyssa can't even go to her yoga class without the paparazzi being there. It's not fair that just because she is a celebrity these "people" follow her and take pictures of her. Being a paparazzo is not a job it's people who stalk and take pictures of other people for their pleasure and money. Nobody should have to go through that in my opinion. Everyone is entitled to privacy and I think Alyssa deserves all her privacy and to be able to go to yoga class without the paparazzi being there and to enjoy her pregnancy too. This is a very special time in her life and she should have all the privacy she wants and needs to enjoy it. I think somebody should go around and take pictures of the paparazzi see how they like it. That wouldn't stop them though. I wish there was a way to stop them. I know that Alyssa's Army would block all the paparazzi from Alyssa if we could. It just makes me sad and gets on my nerves that this has to happen to her. I love Alyssa so much and she shouldn't have to deal with this. I guess that's all I have to say right now. I would like to add a little something I just wrote to this blog post:

I love Alyssa Milano and I can’t stand the fact that the paparazzi thinks it’s ok to follow her around on foot and by car and it scares me that something bad will happen to her one day, like getting in a car crash because of the damn paparazzi. It’s not fair! Alyssa is the sweetest, most compassionate, and amazing woman on this planet and she deserves respect and privacy from everybody. Alyssa is going to be a mom soon and she deserves privacy to enjoy this special time in her life with the ones she loves. I wish there was something I could do to help her and protect her from these “people”. I mean it’s not real job if all you do is go around stalking people to take their picture, it’s a crime is what it is. There should be a law to prevent such horrible acts. It’s weird I actually feel guilty for being a regular girl who doesn’t have the paparazzi following me every day and night. I want Alyssa to have that too so bad. She deserves it more than anybody. The way she handles it though makes me love her even more. She’s so inspirational! I want her to be able to walk down the street with her husband, son, hopefully future children, and dogs without being harassed by the paparazzi. Just leave Alyssa alone for crying out loud show some respect just be a decent human being for once in your lives and see what you’re really doing to her and all the other celebs too. Alyssa we’re here for you every day and we support and love you no matter what.

My Letter To The Haters Of Alyssa Milano

I just wrote this letter to the haters of Alyssa Milano. Just some things I had to say. Don't judge me too harshly.

Dear Haters of Alyssa Milano,

There are just some things I have to say to you. I’ll never understand why you chose to hate someone so beautiful, selfless, amazing, talented, and sweet. She has never done anything (in my opinion) to provoke such hatred and yes I’m talking to the ones who leave such awful comments under articles I read about her and the ones who tweet her such awful things sometimes. I actually pity you for having hatred in you. Alyssa is a human being just like the rest of us and doesn’t deserve your unkind words and disrespect.

If you wish to talk such hate about lovely Alyssa, I wish you would do it offline where none of us loyal fans and Alyssa can read it. When you talk such hate about Alyssa it makes me so mad but it also makes me sad to know there are people out there who feel that way about her. I love her so much and wish you could see her the way I see her. I understand everyone has there own opinions but I wish hating Alyssa wasn’t one of them.

Like Alyssa said in a tweet, “If you’re nice to me I’ll be nice to you. If you’re a douche to me I’ll still be nice to you”. I love that tweet makes me so proud to be a fan of hers. I think it’s amazing that even though you are so mean to Alyssa she’ll never be mean to you really speaks highly of her character. Now, in our hearts Alyssa is NOT a “D” list celeb she is an “A” list celeb. The word “celeb” I really don’t like it I think of her more as a friend now. Anyway I may be mad and sad at what you say about Alyssa but I could never hate you (even though sometimes I might feel like it).

So please, please stop hating on Alyssa. I know you’ll probably never stop but it doesn’t hurt to try right? I wish there was no such thing as hate in the world it would be a much better and safer place for everyone if there wasn’t any hate, but I’m probably just dreaming that. I just wish you wouldn’t hate on Alyssa she really doesn’t deserve it.

Sincerely,

Sumner Nichols aka lilsouthernlady on twitter.

The Best News!!!

The Beautiful, Amazing, and Sweetest Alyssa Milano who also happens to be my idol and hero is pregnant with her first child with husband David Bugliari!!







I'm so happy, thrilled, excited, and everything else that goes in that group of happy feelings and such!! Alyssa deserves this more than anybody. I wish her love, happiness, joy, peace, light and f course lots of Baseball! :) Alyssa and David will be Amazing parents and Alyssa will be an Amazing Mom!!! I hope God blesses them with a happy, healthy baby!! Don't judge me but I kinda hope she has a girl. 50/50 chance right. I will remember this day for the rest of my life!!!
I send lots of ~HUGS~ Smiles :) Peace, and Love <3 to Alyssa!!!

Alyssa Milano My Hero and an Angel!!

Alyssa Milano is such an Amazing person!!! She is my Hero, Idol, and Inspiration!!! She doesn't let her fame or anything go to her head. Alyssa will literally help anyone who needs it!! She's truly and Angel to all!!! Following her on Twitter is beyond Awesome!! She loves everybody and is an Goodwill Ambassador for UNICEFusa. Everybody deserves to have dreams and to be able to follow them and Alyssa helps make that possible!!! She makes me smile every single day, when she tweets. She's such a positive person and an inspiration to all!!
Alyssa is a great role model for everyone!!! She loves her fans more than some can say. She doesn't care if we're white, black, or whatever she loves all individually and as a whole. Someday when I'm able I want to be like Alyssa.
Alyssa is not only Amazing and Inspiring she is down right Gorgeous:




This is Alyssa today in Kosovo for UNICEF!!! She is truly an Angel and My Hero!!! I love her more for all she does for everyone!!!






So, Alyssa is an Amazing woman with a kind and generous heart!!! She is My Hero forever!!!!
Lots of Love from Me to Alyssa!!! ~hugs n love~ Alyssa!!! :)