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Thursday, April 19, 2012

The Most Important People In The World To Me

I often have a hard time coming up with something to blog about. I like to blog about people and things who mean a lot to me and things that I am passionate about. I love making people smile especially those who mean the world to me and I love writing about how much they mean to me know that when they read it they will smile and be happy. I know I get repetitive a lot but if I didn't I'd be hardly blogging at all. I love to blog and write and sometimes I repeat myself. This blog post is about the people who mean the world to me. I hope everyone has special people like these in their lives.

My Hero, Idol, and biggest Inspiration Alyssa Milano. She is so amazing and makes me smile everyday. Everyone should have someone like her in their life. Alyssa is one of the most compassionate people in the world. She tries to make our world a better place anyway she can. The world needs more role models like her. Not only is she an amazing actress, she is an amazing mommy, wife, sister, daughter, and friend to all. Alyssa makes me and so many others smile everyday. She makes me feel better when things are going wrong. She makes me feel like eveything will be ok. She is the bright spot in so many people's lives including mine. She is a true beauty inside and out. Alyssa is truly an amazing, beautiful, and sweet lady who I love with all of my heart. Everyone should follow her on twitter.

My Fiance Rob is the love of my life and my soul mate. At a time when I thought I'd never find love I did and I am so thankful to have him in my life now and forever. He has a huge heart and a beautiful soul and is always there for me. I love our times we spend on Skype together. He makes me laugh and smile all the time. Rob understands me and who I am more than a lot of people do and that makes me so happy. We have so much fun and I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him. I finally don't feel alone anymore. I have happiness in my life again and I thank God for bringing Rob into my life everyday. I hope everyone has a chance to find their true love just like I have.

Dani is one my best friends. She is a stong, amazing, inspirational woman, wife, and mother. She has cancer and PH but that doesn't stop her from being the best she can be. She has a strength I have never seen before. She is always there for my fiance Rob and I and I appreciate that so much. She makes me smile and laugh. She listens to me which a lot of people don't. She is sweet, funny, so beautiful inside and out, and a really great friend. I am so grateful to have her in my life. I love her so much. I wish everyone had a friend like Dani.

Pamela is another one of my best friends. She is a strong, amazing, inspirational woman, wife, and mother. She is always there for my fiance and Rob and I and I appreciate that so much. She listens and understands me. She makes me laugh and smile. She is a very beautiful woman with a very sweet heart and soul. I thank God everyday for bringing her into my life. I am so happy to have her as my friend. I love her so much. I wish everyone had a friend like Pamela.

Lisa is another best friend of mine. She is amazing, sweet, funny, and beautiful. She loves Alyssa Milano as much as I do and has an adorabe cat named Tyger. She makes me laugh and smile. She is always there for me and listens to me and I appreciate that so much. I am so happy to have her as one of my friends. I thank God everyday for bringing her into my life. I love her so much. I wish everyone had a friend like Lisa.

Jen is another best friend of mine. She is talented, amazing, sweet, and beautiful. She is always there for my fiance Rob and I and I appreciate that so much. She has an amazing singing voice and will be a great filmaker and singer someday. She loves Alyssa Milano as much as I do. She makes me smile and laugh. I am so happy I have her as my friend. I thank God everyday for bringing her into my life. I love her so much. I wish everyone had a friend like Jen.

Delphine is another best friend of mine. She is beautiful, sweet, and fun. She is always there for me and listens to me and I appreciate that so much. She makes me smile and laugh. I am so happy to have her has my friend. She has a beautiful heart and soul. I thank God everyday for bringing her into my life. I love her so much. I wish everyone had a friend like Delphine in their life.

Last but not least my 2 best friends Sarah and Ellen who I have been best friends with since I was 12. Sarah and I graduated high school together and went to Disney World together after graduation. Ellen is a mother now to her beautiful daughter Annabell. Ellen and I did art club together at the YMCA after school program in Virginia and spent 3 summers together at the YMCA Camp Saponi in Virginia she was my conselour, then the arts and crafts director, then the director for the younger group. The both make me laugh and smile so much. I am so happy to have them both in my life. I love them so much.

These are just a few of the the people who mean the world to me there a re so many others too like Lippy, Steph, Laura, Niki, and so many more. I wish everyone had great people in their lives like I do. I love you all so much. You all make me so happy. <3 :) XOXOXOXOXOXO

Sunday, April 1, 2012

My Fiance Rob (@lil_red_man) The Greatest Man In The World!

I have been thinking about what to blog about recently and nothing makes me happier then blogging about the people I love so this blog is about my true love and soul mate my fiance Rob! Rob has Autism but that doesn't make him incapable of doing things or feeling things like love. He is the kindest most amazing man I have ever known and it makes me so happy to be his fiance. I love him with all my heart. I have always felt like I would never find love mostly because the pressures I am constantly under but I did find love. It doesn't matter who or where you find love. Love is love not matter what. I always thought love finds you when you least expect it and when you need it most and it is true. I found my love when I needed him most and when I least expected it. Rob completes me. He and are like twins it's amazing. We both love Alyssa Milano she is my hero and if it wasn't for her Rob and I would have never found each other and fell in love. It's one of my biggest dreams to meet Alyssa someday and I so hope it comes true. Rob makes me feel special and loved. He makes me happy and accepts me for me. He understands me when most don't. He's just down right amazing. He's amazing to our friends Dani, Jen, Pamela, and Steph as well. I thank God everyday for bring Rob into my life. I finally have someone who will never leave me and I feel so safe with him.

Rob was born November 9th 1978 and almost died. I was born January 31st 1988 with a hole in my heart., Yes we are just about 10 years apart but when you are in love it doesn't matter. We have gone through a lot of the same things with certain people in our lives making fun of us and treating us like crap but now that we have each other we can go through it together and come out stronger then before. I can't wait for us to be married and to be together forever. Rob will make an amazing dad one day and I have already planned to name our first daughter after Alyssa Milano we will name her Alyssa of course. I love that name. It's to honor Alyssa for bringing Rob and I together. We have both been through a lot in our lives but now we have each other, amazing friends, and an amazing future to look forward too. I can't wait.

April is Autism Awareness month. Rob has a high functioning version of it but didn't know it for while in his life. He was on all sorts of meds that did nothing but made things worse. I am so glad he finally got the correct diagnosis and is off all those bad meds. He is also a cancer survivor. He had skin cancer taken off of his head I am so glad his mother did something about that because he might not be here with us if she hadn't. Rob inspires me to be a better person and we are going to lose weight and better our lives together and I can't wait.

To honor Rob this Autism Awareness month I want as many people as possible to put the Autism Ribbon on everything they can. Their blogs, twitter backgrounds, facebook everywhere and help others learn what Autism is all about and that it's not a bad thing.

I love you so much Rob. I will always be here for you and love you forever. You are my soul mate and true love and you complete me. Nobody can or will take me away from you. You will always have me in your life. I will never ever leave you. You mean the world to me. You are amazing and very special and you can do anything you put your mind to. I will support you all the way just like you do for me. I just hope I can finish college as soon as we would like so we can finally be together. I only have enough money for one more class at the moment but we will find a way for me to finish college. We are stronger together then we ever were before. <3 :) XOXOXOXOXOXOXO

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Friday, March 23, 2012

My Best Friend & Sis Dani @min_svart_ros has Carcinoid Cancer and Pulmonary Hypertension

Dani is an amazing woman, mom, wife, and friend. She will be there for everybody and now it's our turn to be there for her. Dani has Carcinoid Cancer a rare cancer that can't be cured. Carcinoid tumors are a slow-growing cancer that can arise in several places throughout your body. Carcinoid tumors, which are one subset of tumors called neuroendocrine tumors, usually appear in the gastrointestinal tract (appendix, stomach, small intestine, colon, rectum) and in the lungs.

Besides Carcinoid Cancer Dani also has Pulmonary Hypertension. Pulmonary Hypertension is an increase in blood pressure in the pulmonary artery,pulmonary vein, or pulmonary capillaries, together known as the lung vasculature, leading to shortness of breath, dizziness, fainting, and other symptoms, all of which are exacerbated by exertion. Pulmonary Hypertension can be a severe disease with a markedly decreased exercise tolerance and heart failure.

Dani has always been there for me and so many and now we can be there for her in her time of need. Please click the yellow donate button on the right side of my blog and donate whatever you can to help her with her medical and transportation expenses for her Cancer and PH. All amounts help and if you can't donate just sharing this post will help to get it to people who can help.

Please help this amazing woman and my friend live a long life. Thank you so much.

More info on Pulmonary Hypertension http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pulmonary_hypertension

More info on Carcinoid Cancer http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carcinoid_Cancer

Thursday, March 1, 2012

Inspiration and Moving On

I haven't blogged in a while so decided that I need to. I have finally realized some good things in my life in the midst of all the bad. My true love and soul mate Rob who will never leave me and I will never leave him! I love him more than anything in the universe beyond. I used to doubt things in my life like the good would never stay but good does stay. I have finally realized that. I have finally realized who my true friends are and I believe it and love them with all of my heart! My fiance Rob is also one of my best friends, Sarah, Ellen, Delphine, Jen, Dani, Lisa and Lippy! I Thank God for bringing all of them in my life. I'd be lost without them! I often had times where things would go bad and I would get so down and sad and feel like things would never get better but they always did and always will. I realize that now. I have finally moved on from all the bad stuff. Bad things will always happen that is life, but it's how you handle them that makes you the person you are. I feel like a weight has been taken off my shoulders. I hate how negative I can get and I am working on staying postive. My Nana has almost died twice. She has alzheimers and lung problems. She came back again and the hospice people said she could live 10 years like that. It will be really sad when she does pass. I wouldn't love country music as much as I do without her. She and I would watch CMT back when it was nothing but music videos. Life goes on though.

I have to mention how important and amazing my Hero Alyssa Milano has been to me. She's not just my favorite actress, she's someone I consider a friend. She makes me smile and laugh everyday. She has the biggest most compassionate heart. She always makes me feel better when I'm feeling bad. She's someone everyone should look up to. She's so beautiful inside and out. I love her so much. I thank God for bringing her into my life. Alyssa is one of the best people to ever come into my life.

Some things I have realized thanks to my amazing fiance Rob and my hero Alyssa Milano:

-Stay positive. Life will always have it's ups and downs but it's how you deal with it that makes you the best person you can be.

-Happiness is a choice. Choose to be happy. look on the best side of life. appreicate what you have and who you have in your life than dwell on what you don't.

-Move on. People who hurt you aren't worth it. I am glad I finally realize this and have real true friends now.

-Believe. This is one of my favorites. I have 3 major dreams in my life. Meet my hero Alyssa Milano, be a published writer, and be with Rob forever! Believe in yourself and your dreams. Your dreams will come true.

-You are loved. Even if you don't feel it at the moment. You are loved. I know who loves me. Rob, Alyssa, Delphine, Jen, Dani, Lisa, Lippy, Sarah, Ellen and more.

-Spread the love, happiness, and compassion. One of the best ways to lift up your spirits and spirits of others is to help others in need. Even if you can't donate money, donate your time, or at least make someone smile. You will be amazed at how much better you will feel about yourself.